so very sorry for what you're going through ---- the dashes represent a prayer just sent up that God will grant you the strength for each day. your backstory reminds me of the dilemma i felt in talking about my mom after alzheimer's took her - i told people that i didn't know what to say: 'mom IS really smart' ? 'mom WAS really smart' ? while she was still alive i finally settled on saying 'when mom was herself....' again, i'm so sorry.
I am living with someone who is declining physically, not mentally. It is a daily battle to accept the new man while screaming inside for the former man. Wish I had a magic wand for us.
Thank you for the support everyone. So many of you are currently experiencing and/or have already survived the decline of loved ones so your empathy and kindness means much to me.
I so relate to your comment #1Aunt and prayers are most welcome.
If I ever find that magic wand DDbytheC, I will certainly share it with you.
these six words leapt out from the sermon I heard in church this morning. Thanks Pastor Jodi. (I attend a Baptist church which has two lady ministers on the pastoral team.)We can live with peace and joy no matter...
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jl333 says,
This is hard for you...I know. So sorryNumbrOneAunt says,
so very sorry for what you're going through ---- the dashes represent a prayer just sent up that God will grant you the strength for each day. your backstory reminds me of the dilemma i felt in talking about my mom after alzheimer's took her - i told people that i didn't know what to say: 'mom IS really smart' ? 'mom WAS really smart' ? while she was still alive i finally settled on saying 'when mom was herself....' again, i'm so sorry.notjustagirlintheworld says,
I am so sorry. Know that you are loved here and we are sharing your meals in spirit.canadafreeze says,
The heartbreak you suffer is palpable - it is a cruel disease. Writing can be cathartic - I'm so glad you are writing here.DynamicDbytheC says,
I am living with someone who is declining physically, not mentally. It is a daily battle to accept the new man while screaming inside for the former man. Wish I had a magic wand for us.scribbling_scribe says,
Thank you for the support everyone. So many of you are currently experiencing and/or have already survived the decline of loved ones so your empathy and kindness means much to me.I so relate to your comment #1Aunt and prayers are most welcome.
If I ever find that magic wand DDbytheC, I will certainly share it with you.
DynamicDbytheC says,
Hope you have support.