Yes Believe, I am one and I still don't get it. I work with mostly women and then I REALLY don't get it. Men are easier in my world. As told to me by a man, men only need 5 things to be contents, 1.Food 2.Sex (did I even need to say that one) 3. Entertainment 4. Accomplishment/Career/Success
5. Hobby/Passion. Not necessarily in that order.
Men need love. But it's expressed most frequently through these things. They express love through being capable - of anything from fixing the sink to blowing your mind with awesome sex. I guess every guy's different but it seems like for the most part they want to be able to fix. My husband and I try to remember that - we experience love differently and true love often means expressing it the way the other wants to experience it, instead of yourself. So far seems to be working, we're crazy about each other.
Men need love. But it's expressed most frequently through these things. They express love through being capable - of anything from fixing the sink to blowing your mind with awesome sex. I guess every guy's different but it seems like for the most part they want to be able to fix. My husband and I try to remember that - we experience love differently and true love often means expressing it the way the other wants to experience it, instead of yourself. So far seems to be working, we're crazy about each other.
Last weekend I met an amazing woman. She is the cantor at the synagogue where my nephew was bar mitzvahed. When she found out we were from Philly, she came over to our table at the luncheon to play ‘Jewish...
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Believe says,
We rarely understand ourselves.marymc says,
Yeah... I wouldn't worry too much about that.KharisJo says,
we're best at our most mysterious ;)DynamicDbytheC says,
Yes Believe, I am one and I still don't get it. I work with mostly women and then I REALLY don't get it. Men are easier in my world. As told to me by a man, men only need 5 things to be contents, 1.Food 2.Sex (did I even need to say that one) 3. Entertainment 4. Accomplishment/Career/Success5. Hobby/Passion. Not necessarily in that order.
Wench says,
I wanted a girl so bad but now I'm relieved to have a boy. Tonka truck. Dirt. Frogs. Bam.KharisJo says,
@DDbtC Do men not need love? Perhaps a man could enlighten me. Wonder how many things on a woman's list...shoes would have to be there...wackjob says,
women seem to be more critical of women than are menWench says,
Men need love. But it's expressed most frequently through these things. They express love through being capable - of anything from fixing the sink to blowing your mind with awesome sex. I guess every guy's different but it seems like for the most part they want to be able to fix. My husband and I try to remember that - we experience love differently and true love often means expressing it the way the other wants to experience it, instead of yourself. So far seems to be working, we're crazy about each other.Wench says,
Men need love. But it's expressed most frequently through these things. They express love through being capable - of anything from fixing the sink to blowing your mind with awesome sex. I guess every guy's different but it seems like for the most part they want to be able to fix. My husband and I try to remember that - we experience love differently and true love often means expressing it the way the other wants to experience it, instead of yourself. So far seems to be working, we're crazy about each other.