Obscure "holiday" held the Saturday before the "real" Mother's Day, offends on countless levels. It begins by reminding birthmothers that they have vanished, standing in the penumbra of Mother's Day, peaks in celebration that acknowledges birthmothers'sacrifice but ignores the depth of pain and loss that may persist. The occasion ends by defining birthmothers as warmly as sperm donors. Even the term - birthmother - has a clinical connotation. To distinguish birthmothers in this way is insensitive.
It’s a sad, all too familiar story: harsh, distant, alcoholic father, sensitive, shy daughter always seeking his love and approval. Although there were flashes of kindness, most of my dad’s feelings had been buried long before. Even as...
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GailWriteOnTime says,
Obscure "holiday" held the Saturday before the "real" Mother's Day, offends on countless levels. It begins by reminding birthmothers that they have vanished, standing in the penumbra of Mother's Day, peaks in celebration that acknowledges birthmothers'sacrifice but ignores the depth of pain and loss that may persist. The occasion ends by defining birthmothers as warmly as sperm donors. Even the term - birthmother - has a clinical connotation. To distinguish birthmothers in this way is insensitive.