"Even your laugh is really annoying."
Backstory
And that's a "nicer version" of what he said.My laugh is one of the only things I have since apparently I don't have people I can trust - people who accept me.
I can't. I just can't.
One life. Six words. What’s yours?™
"Even your laugh is really annoying."
Comments
ba_miracle says,
Not a person whose opinion can matter to you. Someone who would say that is hardly worth knowing. If you are stuck in a circumstance where you have to deal with this person, try your best to distance yourself in any way possible.You can and if you really can't just hang on until you can.
HopeInPain says,
The problem is that he's one of my "closest friends." I keep trying to pretend that he didn't mean for his comment to hurt so much, but I'm worried that he did. I can't afford to lose him though. I don't know. I just don't know what to do. Three weeks ago I might have "laughed" it off, but I'm not able to right now.ba_miracle says,
You can't afford to have friends that would treat you that way, especially when you're down?Life will bring enough misery all on it's own without the people you care about actually making an effort to hurt you.
If the relationship is important to you, have a conversation about what was said, how you took it and ask what was meant. Tell him your last sentence.
Treat your dear ones well and be treated well by your loved ones....it is the most loving thing you can possibly do.
Keep moving yourself forward and keep hopeing maybe someday in a little less pain and then maybe someday...no pain just feeling good...it is a possibility for you I hope you realize that.
P.S. I always think I'm coming off soft and have been told that I am not always. I mean this to be supportive. I hope for you good things