Cancelled 50th birthday party, scheduling funeral.
Backstory
March 20th would have been his 50th. April 20th would have been our 29th anniversary.photo-family pool. James far left and his brother front and center. They had six-packs as soon as they could walk.










Comments
Dragonflower says,
I noticed the six-packs right off when you posted this photo in another memoir. Obviously they were ready for bathing suit season!! Taking my cue.... James continues to be an inspiration.Not quite 50 is way too young. Just not fair. Not fair at all. As you plan for his funeral, I wish for you much strength. Surround yourself with lots of support and kindness to yourself. Celebrate a life well lived and well loved. So impressed that of those 50 years, 29 of them were spent in such a loving and fun relationship. A true gift. xxxooo's.
jl333 says,
Never the way it's supposed to belillybrook says,
This is so unfair, but I know that his funeral -- like his party -- will be a celebration of life. He was filled with it, and so are you.JimTom says,
I feel for your loss, and I send my regards.Redx3 says,
DdbC, I am so very sorry. I've been gone and didn't know. Your beautiful love story is written in the hearts of everyone here. Know that my prayers are for you and with you today.EnMasse says,
Fifty is young. I'm so sorry. But I will say that you have had something that I never will at this point - 29 years shared with someone you love. That's an excellent take away from life, and something you will never lose.