I know this sounds excessive. And it is, especially because it was with same the person. I finally gave up last year, but my heart wants to try again. My heart seems to be a glutton for punishment. I am sending it to a 30 day intensive rehab center. Heartbreak Rehab Center, specializing in the most diehard cases. Romantics Anonymous meetings daily. Hope it works. My heart deserves a break (from pain).