Now you know how women feel when men comment and then that's it! Whats the next part supposed to be? Is it up to the commentee to make next move? If so, what?
My flirtatious deli guy told me the other day he really liked my scarf. He's said I look nice, He likes my perfume, said lots of sweet things. He acts like he's interested, but then nothing. Oddly, he told me the deli was closing for two weeks to remodel, but it didn't. I've stopped going. Lot's of fish in the sea, and all that. Probably the not closing was due to contractors or some problem unrelated to me. Not everything revolves around me! But I just feel too confused and too shy to ask outright what's going on.
Mid fifties, married thirty years. My husband has sweetly asked me to try to outlive him, because he doesn't want to face life alone.
His odds are pretty good. Both our mothers (still living!) outlived our fathers. And our grandmothers...
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Dragonflower says,
Now you know how women feel when men comment and then that's it! Whats the next part supposed to be? Is it up to the commentee to make next move? If so, what?My flirtatious deli guy told me the other day he really liked my scarf. He's said I look nice, He likes my perfume, said lots of sweet things. He acts like he's interested, but then nothing. Oddly, he told me the deli was closing for two weeks to remodel, but it didn't. I've stopped going. Lot's of fish in the sea, and all that. Probably the not closing was due to contractors or some problem unrelated to me. Not everything revolves around me! But I just feel too confused and too shy to ask outright what's going on.
Sagacious says,
I recall someone mentioning a flirtatious deli guy. Who were you before you were the DragonEmpress?Dragonflower says,
Autumn22.Sagacious says,
Oookay. I was wondering where you'd disappeared to!