There comes a point when you go beyond being attracted to someone. Your skin feels all funny and your heart starts beating that little bit faster when you see them- it's THAT kind of feeling. With this feeling comes insecurity, jealousy, etc. etc. I'm really not sure it's healthy or a whole lot of fun for either of us.
I feel this way about someone after 16 years. We are not together but thats the feeling exactly as you described.
I broke it off this year (2012) for the unhealthy aspects you mentioned. Still deciding if that was right thing to do. Its a puzzle. Sometimes I feel I'd rather have the flu.
Mid fifties, married thirty years. My husband has sweetly asked me to try to outlive him, because he doesn't want to face life alone.
His odds are pretty good. Both our mothers (still living!) outlived our fathers. And our grandmothers...
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MO_Thoughts2 says,
Sometimes jumping in with both feet is the only way to go ....Dragonflower says,
And then again, it could just be the flu.canadafreeze says,
Scary good?Sagacious says,
There comes a point when you go beyond being attracted to someone. Your skin feels all funny and your heart starts beating that little bit faster when you see them- it's THAT kind of feeling. With this feeling comes insecurity, jealousy, etc. etc. I'm really not sure it's healthy or a whole lot of fun for either of us.Dragonflower says,
I feel this way about someone after 16 years. We are not together but thats the feeling exactly as you described.I broke it off this year (2012) for the unhealthy aspects you mentioned. Still deciding if that was right thing to do. Its a puzzle. Sometimes I feel I'd rather have the flu.