Ask him is good advice and hoping for the truth is fine but don't stop at taking his word over your own instinct (of course unless you're willing to, many partners do).
Powerful straight six.
would recommend "Love must be tough" by James Dobson. Whilst there is some Christian perspective, the principles of tough love are universal. wishing you all the best.
Mid fifties, married thirty years. My husband has sweetly asked me to try to outlive him, because he doesn't want to face life alone.
His odds are pretty good. Both our mothers (still living!) outlived our fathers. And our grandmothers...
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l8leigh says,
Uh-oh.Planet says,
Hang on . . . hardest thing I ever went through.Amapola says,
Ask him, confront him. Don't take the paranoid route. The sooner you find out the truth, the better.Dhani says,
six. Sniff, sniff, who's there? (Another woman?!!!)unknown116 says,
Dhani, you just made my day.And Amapola, good advice.
ba_miracle says,
Ask him is good advice and hoping for the truth is fine but don't stop at taking his word over your own instinct (of course unless you're willing to, many partners do).Powerful straight six.
MariaMaria says,
Communication kills assumption.Ask yourself this...If you do find out will you stand by him or are you going to stand by your man and make him yours sorting through?
despite the now; its whats becomes
KharisJo says,
would recommend "Love must be tough" by James Dobson. Whilst there is some Christian perspective, the principles of tough love are universal. wishing you all the best.elissaberardi says,
sorry to hear that. wish you both the very bestena says,
Hold your nose!Amapola says,
yes, listen to your intuition - but I really hope he'll tell the truth...!MsKillie says,
Follow your gut- it's always right!Men who cheat aren't real men, so don't waste your time with him if he is...
jl2 says,
speak your mind, listen, then decide