he writes his wife saying that he's been gay his whole lifeMy ex was dumped by his long time suggar-daddy boyfriend (whom he had been cheating on a lot!!). First thing he does, after lots of sex, is going and tricking an old time girlfriend, whose known to be a bit naive, into getting together. They get married soon after and she gets pregnant. A month later, he receives a grant to study a few months in France and leaves his LatinAmerican hometown. Not much later he writes his wife saying that he's been gay his whole life, he has met someone special in Paris and is leading the life he always wanted, so he won't be coming back. After that, he cuts any contact with friends and vanishes.