He was more than what I had bargained for and cheaper than gas three years ago. I could never say or do the right thing. All MY hard earned money went directly into his bank account and he never even bothered to pay the bills with my name on them. Emotionally, physically and mentally he hurt me in every way possible. He made me work my fingers to the bones just to get those last pennies in his bank account. I had two full time jobs and was trying to juggle school in the mix. Once I quit both jobs, I worked in a grueling environment where he was going to force me to work more than I had to. But if it weren't for that grueling place, I would have never learned about myself or met my husband. I learned so many things that I didn't want to see about myself. So thank you to my ex for making me a stronger, more confident woman!!