I should have used him for a sperm donor.I should have used him for a sperm donor. Instead, I married him and made all our lives miserable. It took six years for a divorce and ten more after that before he finally took the hint and left town. The day he left was a day to celebrate until the police showed up at the door to let us know there had been an accident. Suddenly, he didn't seem so bad. Then the officer further explained that my ex had been drinking and driving and was in jail, would I come get him? Yes, he really was that bad and no, I wouldn't go get him. When I closed my door that night, I closed it forever on that chapter of my life. Since then, it's only gotten better.